Pick one goal in your life. Just one.
Don’t think about what your parents want, or society wants, or even what your friends want.
Make it something that will make you feel happy. Proud of yourself, even.
And then, go out and accomplish your goal.
Spend a month, or a year, or even twenty years (or more) if you need to.
There is no timeline for achieving success, on your own terms.
Once you reach this goal, whatever it is, remember how good that feels.
Remind yourself, whenever things aren’t going so well, that you reached that one goal you set.
Understand that success breeds confidence, and without confidence you’re lost.
Now choose your goal and start chasing it.